“People are very easy to change their hearts, especially the heart of a man.”
Men’s hearts are changeable, so many women are insecure.
It’s important to find someone who loves you
Feelings are not based on contention, but on finding someone who loves yourself. It is important to find someone who loves you.
“Wise women will find a man who loves themselves to marry, and only stupid women will worry about the people they love all day.”
Maybe people often watch some palace fighting dramas in their lives, and many women in the court life are fighting and robbing.
These women are meant to win the favor of the emperor, but the woman the emperor really loves is a woman who does not know how to fight.
The reason why the emperor loves this woman who does not know how to fight is because the emperor loves this woman, so basically she does not fight, and the emperor will love her.
Therefore, smart women in life will find someone who loves themselves, so that they will not be too tired.
Only when you find a man who loves you deeply and who loves your own bones will this man have a small chance of changing his heart in the future, and you will be likely to continue to be spoiled.
Love does not depend on contention, but on attraction
In this world, fame and fortune can be earned and snatched, but love cannot.
“People’s hearts cannot be grabbed, so I chose to give up.”
If a man loves you continuously, you can get his love without arguing, but if a man has changed his mind, then what is the use of arguing?
The famous writer Mr. M has an original wife.
But Mr. M didn’t like the original wife. Later, Mr. M taught in the school and liked his students.
“Although my student Mr. Xu didn’t have much communication, I saw him at first sight.”
Mr. M and his students were later together. After the two were together, Mr. M never heard any gossip again.
People may think that he and his students are very different in age, but why can the two love each other for a lifetime.
I think one of the most important things is that Mr. M’s wife doesn’t know how to fight to grab, or how to be careful, but to attract Mr. M through his own glamour.
As a clever writer, Mr. M appreciates his wife’s peaceful attitude and his unhurried manner.
Mr. Lu Xun’s wife did not go to theory with Lu Xun’s original wife, nor did she deliberately earn money with her original wife, but she still won Lu Xun’s life.
This point shows that it is very important for a person to be strong. Many things are attracted, not robbed.
When you constantly update yourself, when you continue to improve your own thoughts, you can continue to attract the last person, and this love can last longer.
What you get at random will not be cherished by men
If a woman competes with another woman for this man, then in the eyes of the man, the woman has a bargain.
There is a book that says:
“A boy is an animal with a strong desire to conquer. If a woman deliberately sends it to the door, the woman will not be attractive in the eyes of the man.”
In recent years, it has often been surrounded by a sentence:
What is easily obtained will not be cherished.
Especially for a woman, if she doesn’t even have her own restraint and fights to grab it, then in the eyes of a man, how much the woman should be devalued.
When the heroine’s boyfriend likes the female number two, the heroine didn’t fight for it. The heroine said this:
“I love you, but I want to protect my pride and self-esteem even more, because if I lose this, I can’t even ask you to love me.”
Women should not bet on their self-esteem at any time, so the love won’t last long.
Precisely because of such a character of the heroine and the attitude of doing things, the heroine later put aside female No.2 and the heroine together.
However, in this relationship, the female No. 2 struggled to grab it. Although it only won the appreciation of the male No. 1, it did not last long with the male No. 1.
The feeling of male No. 1 to female No. 2 is like a dream, coming fast and going fast.
If a woman lays down her restraint in front of a man without self-esteem, then the man will feel that the woman is very casual and can fall in love with the woman or break up with the woman.
In a program, the host said this sentence:
“When others treat you with this attitude, you have to think about your style of doing things.”
Sometimes people’s attitudes towards you are caused by the style in which you do things.
Therefore, a smart woman will love a man, but will also hold the balance.
People around you often have such friends. When love is not enough, they will hate because of love.
When they hate because of love, they will fight for this man and grab this man.
In fact, these are not necessary. Good love can stand the test of time. If a man can’t stand the test of your love, it doesn’t matter if such a person leaves.
People are grateful for every encounter in life, but they need to be more kind to themselves.
Women who can continue to be pampered by men are often those who understand “indisputable”.
Feelings are different from other things, that is, feelings are not earned or robbed, because the person you love is not an object, it has its own independent thinking ability.
In life, a woman still has to find someone who loves herself, so that she can live a happy life.
As one writer said:
“When you were young, many people lost in the hands of the person you love, but one day you will find that the person you chose last is the best person for you.”